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The Sex Addict


According to some research, the majority of individuals seeking help for sexual addiction or compulsion report problematic viewing of pornography accompanied by compulsive masturbation. But as with those who believe they may be sex addicts, studies of those concerned about their use of pornography find that, on average, they do not generally look at porn more than others do.




The Sex Addict



Treatment for sex addiction emerged in the 1970s and 1980s and adopted several models used for treating other behavioral addictions like alcoholism such as abstention, confession, and the renouncing of impulses. Today, many therapists reject that model, and treatment for people worried about their sexual impulses is more likely to involve both members of a couple, and less likely to include a prescription of abstinence.


Several prominent figures accused of sexual misconduct, including Harvey Weinstein, have claimed that their behavior was propelled by sex addiction. Prosecutors, victims, and researchers argue that abuse of power, misogyny, and self-destructive urges may be equally likely factors. Yet many defendants have successfully invoked sex addiction in civil, criminal, and family court cases, despite the fact that the DSM-5 does not recognize the condition.


Sex addiction does share many of the hallmarks of clinical addiction. One of these is that the person will be unable to control their behavior, even if the negative consequences are clear (or even likely).


If you or a loved one are struggling with substance use or addiction, contact the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline at 1-800-662-4357 for information on support and treatment facilities in your area.


Karila L, Wéry A, Weinstein A, et al. Sexual addiction or hypersexual disorder: different terms for the same problem? A review of the literature. Curr Pharm Des. 2014;20(25):4012-20. doi:10.2174/13816128113199990619.


Fixes provide a state of ecstasy, calm, nirvana. Alas the shot of nirvana during the sex act lasts only as long as the magic of sex wears off. Result? The sex addict is rendered emptier, distressed, and fragmented. To quell these painful feelings, she is compelled to resume her pursuit for her next fix.


How do sex addicts recover? Twelve step programs work for some people. For others, I recommend deep analytic therapy that focuses on visiting the past, but living in the moment, learning coping skills, finding internal satisfaction, pursuing healthy passions that fulfill the emptiness.


Some people refer to compulsive sexual behavior as sexual addiction. However, the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) published guidelines advising that sex addiction and porn addiction are not diagnosable psychological disorders due to a lack of empirical evidence.


As not enough evidence is available to support the connection between compulsive sexual behavior and the psychological circuits of addiction, these criteria do not have wider application in the diagnosis of compulsive sexual behavior.


Reports of alleged sexual encounters in a church parking lot, after watching a Tom Hanks movie, and with two porn stars, a lingerie model and a breakfast waitress -- among others -- were quickly followed this week by headlines and talk-show guests wondering aloud if the world's No. 1 golfer, Tiger Woods, is a \"sex addict.\"


The jury is still out on whether Woods is addicted to sex, psychologists told ABC News.com, explaining that such a diagnosis requires several criteria, including determining if he can control his urges, and whether not having sex makes him anxious.


\"There are a lot of people out there calling him a sex addict,\" said Judy Kuriansky, a psychologist and sex expert at Columbia University. \"But you have to ask is this really the behavior of an addict, or this the behavior of a very rich, powerful, celebrity, man, who has been given lots of opportunities?\"


\"Years ago, if you called someone a sex addict, that would be big shame. But now someone can hold up that diagnosis and say, 'I can't control my behavior.' Then he goes into rehab and the public gives him a pass,\" she said.


The cycle of sex addiction is rooted in a larger addictive system which starts with a belief system. The belief system is a collection of convictions, myths, and values that affect the decisions we make.


No matter what the sexual betrayal, the partner of the sex addict experiences deep trauma and injury. It can be harder than you think to find a therapist who really understands the trauma you have suffered as a partner of a porn or sexual addict.


At Front Range Counseling Center, we believe that the partner/spouse of the sex addict experiences PTSD trauma upon learning that the person she or he loved and trusted has been unfaithful (some for years). We have found that most partners had no idea that their spouse/partner was even struggling with sexual addiction.


In our experience working with sex addicts and partners, no matter what the sex addict tells you, you should not have unprotected sex until you are confident (repeat, confident) that the addict has had a full (and completely clean) STD screen, and is willing to be tested in the future whenever you ask.


We have a couples-centered therapeutic disclosure process this is a crucial component in recovery for both the partner and the addict and for the relationship. We believe that the couples-centered disclosure should be done early in recovery (within one to three months) for the partner of that chooses to stay in the relationship.


Our partners of sex addicts group provide a safe space for you to share hurt, your anger, and your fears. The group counselor creates an environment of love and acceptance. You may have to try out more than one before you find one where you feel comfortable. We use a curriculum based on the partner trauma model of healing for partners.


This page is dedicated to providing you with useful information on sex and porn addiction. It will explain the sign/symptoms you should look for, how they affect your life and those around you, and what treatment options are available.


Although a sex addiction or pornography addiction can create many physical side effects, few physical symptoms of this disorder exist. However, the most common physical sex addict symptoms you might notice from having a sexual addiction is feeling immobilized due to sexual or emotional obsessions.


Yes, sex addiction can be treated. You will typically want to speak with a mental health professional, like a psychologist or licensed social worker. They will help you address some of the underlying factors that are maintaining your sex or porn addiction, and teach you to cope with your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in a healthy way.


Although there are no FDA-approved medications for sex or porn addiction, antidepressants are one of the most common medications prescribed to treat sex addiction. Antidepressants are very safe to take but can have some side effects.


Withdrawal is a characteristic feature of chemical addictions and reports indicate that individuals struggling with sexual addictions frequently report experiencing withdrawal after a reduction in sexual activity. Withdrawal symptoms can include but are not limited to:


Treating co-occurring addictions is a complex process. Medical professionals must assess the pattern of drug use and sexual behaviors and how they relate to each other. Research indicates that there are two important things to consider when evaluating the relation:


While some sex addicts use substances in order to cope with the pain and guilt caused by their sexual behaviors, others use them to enhance the sexual experience. If you think that you have issues with both sex addiction and substance addiction, it is critical to your recovery that you find a treatment center that can cater to both of these addictions. 041b061a72


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